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Month: September 2020

An Excess of Grief During this Time of Balance

September 27, 2020 Trenton

We just passed the fall equinox, about a week ago. One of two times a year in which the day and night are equal. It’s a time to focus on balance within our lives. The challenge for me is that… Read moreAn Excess of Grief During this Time of Balance

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On the day the world ends

September 19, 2020 Trenton

On the day the world endsthe sky is bright bluewith a sharp chill in the airand little songbirds hopping around the window ledge One the day the world endsI wear my pajama pants and sweatshirtwith red, tired eyeshair sticking up… Read moreOn the day the world ends

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Gratitude

September 14, 2020September 14, 2020 Trenton

I mentioned in my last post that I don’t particularly want to focus on being grateful right now… I felt compelled to write a post specifically about that, because not a day goes by when I don’t see something on… Read moreGratitude

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A different kind of light

September 12, 2020 Trenton

Some of us make our own light… despite the harsh electric lights around us, or the hot light of the sun, or the white light of the moon, we are always in darkness. The heavy cloak of grief that I… Read moreA different kind of light

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Grief Haiku #1

September 8, 2020September 8, 2020 Trenton

It is amazinghow fuzzy socks filled with warmmemories can draw blood Today in Denver the weather dropped to below freezing, with snow forecasted all day, after several 90+ degree days. Sara didn’t like to drive in the snow, but enjoyed… Read moreGrief Haiku #1

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Death Certificates

September 4, 2020 Trenton

Death Certificates… All this talk about death certificates in the news as of late is an unexpected source of pain for me – little pin pricks that bring me back to November of last year. Sara’s death certificate was the… Read moreDeath Certificates

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Calling myself back

September 3, 2020 Trenton

I’ve never been a particularly sentimental person. I have a few mementos from my youth and my college experience, but not many. I’ve been more of an “in the moment” or “thinking about the future” type person. But these days,… Read moreCalling myself back

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Our Home full of Love

September 2, 2020September 2, 2020 Trenton

4 years ago today we closed on our house. We tried to move in that evening only to find the water had been shut off due to a >$1k water bill unpaid by the prior occupants. Looking at the timeline… Read moreOur Home full of Love

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